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How has your life changed for the past 10 years? Can you share your #10year challenge? Is your life better, worse, or still hopeful?

07.06.2025 07:09

How has your life changed for the past 10 years? Can you share your #10year challenge? Is your life better, worse, or still hopeful?

We are about to enter 2025 in few months.

These 10 years were fucking brutal. They hit me like a sharp knife and a blunt hammer. But like they say-

Man is both the sculptor as well as the sculpture!

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(Look at this kid. Looks so proud after wearing a white coat. He wants to be cool and at that stage, wanted to be a surgeon like his dad.)

However, these 10 years also had its good moments. I managed to clear MBBS and add Dr. in front of my name. I started earning money as soon as I cleared my graduation, which is a really nice thing. I discovered my passion (Psychiatry), gave exams and went abroad to United Kingdom. I am currently working as a doctor in Psychiatry in UK, earning a really good amount (>50k pounds/50 lakh rupees per annum), live independently in my own rented flat, have 3 research papers in my name. From a career and financial point of view, I am damn proud of myself and I have done really well (touchwood).

10 years back I was in high school. The only goal of my life was to ace my NEET UG/AIIMS UG exam. I was, frankly speaking, a big idiot that time. Bhola Baccha, for whom drinking from same straw of a girl was a big thing. For whom, playing games was entire life. For whom, cracking an entrance exam was the entire point of proving his worth. For whom, getting a good feedback from teachers triumphed everything. That Himank Gupta was a kid. Literally, I was just turning 18. In 2015, I managed to clear the entrance exam and got admitted into AIIMS Bhopal and started my journey to become a doctor.

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Oh boy, did my life change DRASTICALLY in 10 years.

However, do you know what is the best part about these 10 years? I have grown TREMENDOUSLY as a man and as a human. I became mature, understood people, developed few but really deep friendships and learnt so many amazing hobbies (Playing guitar, Cooking, Collecting fragrances etc. to name a few). I understood what was love, had some beautiful experiences with some people which made me grew even more. My dad’s loss and my surgery made me realize the fragility of life. I also realized that a lot of things that we worry about aren’t really worth making a fuss about. I became calm, collected, practical and pragmatic. I became a better man. A man who strives to become someone his loved ones can trust and depend upon. A man whose mere presence makes his loved ones remain ‘befikar’ (chill/relaxed without worries).

First the bad stuff. I lost my dad in 2020. I underwent an open heart surgery for a congenital heart issue in 2021 (BAV/aneurysm). I have to be on some particular medications for my entire life (which is honestly not a big issue). Of course, I had some typical college issues like heartbreaks. All in all, these 10 years did indeed kick my ass like anything lol. Like a proper 13′ leather boot kick to the butt!

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